Twenties. It’s that period in one’s life when you can either be too adventurous or too conservative. If you want to set yourself up for success in your 30s (or much later in life), it’s best if you make the most out of your 20s by building a career, experiencing new things through travel, connecting with your family and friends, and saving up.
Search or build a career that enables you to work from home
Remote employment has become increasingly popular these days, and you should take advantage of it. One of the best ways to have more control in your life is by working from home, because once you’re home, things can start to shift in your favor as you call the shots in how you do your work.
Of course, there are various challenges with this set-up. There are relatively few types of jobs that translate to a career from home. That’s why you should first survey the different careers that are typical of at-home workers before you set yourself up for one of them.
Almost every professional who is now working from home has either worked very hard in their twenties to build their own business or has worked hard enough in the past to specialize on a certain skill that has made them highly valuable in the company to replace. The bottom line is that there’s just much freedom and flexibility about this kind of job that it could lead to bigger career changes in the next decade of your professional life.
Heading out to faraway places and discovering new parts of the world – especially on your own – is definitely a spiritually rewarding experience. It can also tell you that are mature enough to go on your own and learn from other cultures.
During this time, you won’t have any other pressing obligations and could be carefree for a few moments. Use this opportunity to meet different people, live with them, and understand their thoughts and culture. Plus, you can learn how to survive independently outside the comforts of your usual environment.
In itself, traveling is a great provider of knowledge. There are tons of things that you can learn if you invest in a form of travel during your 20s. Try not to go from one hotel to another, but also try going from city to city, or country to country, staying with, when possible, with local families. People learn through struggling, and if you can push yourself to struggle with language, customs, foods, and arts, you can definitely learn a lot.
There are many rewards of trying to live a healthy life. Unfortunately, it is a sad fact that “aesthetically pleasing” people tend to be those who are more privileged in life. According to Daniel Hamermesh’s research, “Attractive people are likely to earn an average of 3 to 4 percent more than a person with below-average looks. That adds up to $230,000 more over a lifetime for the typical good-looking person, Dr. Hamermesh estimates. Even an average-looking worker is likely to make $140,000 more over a lifetime than an ugly worker.”
When you do decide to start to working on your dream body, you should do it as early as possible. What you probably didn’t know is that you can buy yourself some time if you’ve been lifting weights regularly during your twenties. When muscles have been built earlier in your life, they tend to stay strong long enough that you can do relatively simpler workouts in your thirties. This plan allows you a lot more flexibility with your workout regimen later on.
Of course, fit and more buff people are generally healthier than the average man. This means that not only do you get more attractive, but you also live longer and not worry too much about avoidable ailments in your old life. There are many other benefits to being fit, and you should start aiming to be one in your 20s. Because living healthy is a lifestyle as much as it is a habit, you need to build up that pattern as early as possible so that your own body would be groomed for a healthier life.
Connect with your siblings
Staying in touch with your siblings in your twenties may not be as fun as it was when you were a toddler. This is the period when people are beginning to make their marks in their communities. They begin to establish their own identities. Some even go as far as becoming their parents or become romantically engaged with someone like their parents.
At this point, you might be in denial of this new turn in life. You might even stay in that denial stage as long as possible. This can lead to avoiding anything related to your parents. This includes avoiding your siblings because siblings can always tell when you’re acting like your parents.
According to a study from Harvard, one of the indicators of people who are happy is their relationships with their siblings as an adult. Those who remain close with their siblings are generally happier and more directed in life.
If believe the path to happiness lies in being able to get into exclusive clubs or have the fanciest things money can buy, you should probably choose a new path. These things don’t last. Your siblings are the ones who stay the longest. Give them regular visits and see a different light in your life.
Save as much as you can, even when it means being stingy sometimes.
Money shouldn’t be your primary motivator, but nearly everyone could easily say that you should still focus on sensible financial planning, especially setting away a rainy-day fund to cushion you when you hit inevitable bumps on the road. Start saving and look for guides on the internet on how you can live a generous life without having to spend a lot.
You can set aside six to 12 months of living expenses. You don’t want to panic or change your lifestyle if something bad happens like injury, sickness, or job loss.
When it comes to treating others, always remember that you really don’t have to impress your friends. For example, you can just look for cheap but memorable – or practical – gifts to your best friend’s wedding like a water heater from your local store or something creative like a survival kit that you can buy online. Indeed, it’s not your task to impress your friends by spoiling them with an expensive night out. Rather, save now and be prepared when the time of need comes.
Realize that 20s is not practice
Your 20s shouldn’t be a rehearsal for your old age. It is real life and the poor choices that you can make can haunt you when you’re older. Don’t worry about something like relocation – it’s true that you can live anywhere, but it’s not true that you’re going to want to live just anywhere. Go on and live with your parents if money is a big issue, but make sure that you are looking ahead after a certain amount of time.
People in their twenties spend too much time making dead-end decisions that they pretend don’t count. Instead, focus on using a systematic way to try new jobs and new relationships to figure where you fit. Don’t worry that things don’t feel right in your twenties because everything happens so fast. Time does speed up as you get older, and you’re not going to believe how fast your twenties are over.